February 8th, 2010

Gaming Girls With No Game

Topics: Dating


Being that I live in New York City, it is rare for me to date a girl with no game. The girls I date (as in actually see regularly, compared to just fucking a girl once or twice) are generally in the top 10% of looks and as a result have a ton of experience dealing with guys. Also, based on the type of personality that I find attractive, that sassiness just generally seems to carry over to her game. This is why it was so odd for me to deal with this girl who has absolutely zero girl game last night after the Super Bowl.

Just to go through the quick background on this girl, I met her out a couple of weeks ago at a bar I’ve been frequenting lately. Opened her direct almost immediately as she came into my field of view, and eventually got her number later in the evening after trying to game her cute friend for about half of the night despite having initially being drawn to her. We texted back and forth a couple of times, but she also ignored a couple of my texts in between, so I wasn’t really sure where I stood until I ran into her at the same bar on Friday night and hung out with her for a couple of hours, made out with her a lot and seeded our post Super Bowl date.

The thing is, this girl is green. Really green. She’s from a small town in Ohio, and goes to a small school in an even smaller town in Ohio. She was in a relationship all through high school and has had a boyfriend for two years in college (the only guy she’s ever slept with). Got to the city three weeks ago for a semester here, and has been working like crazy between an internship with a really popular TV show and a couple of other part time jobs in the evenings. As a result of this lack of experience, she has absolutely no game. It’s kind of weird because since I have a very high octane game designed for high octane girls, it’s almost like my game is too powerful and I feel a little manipulative in using it. It’s the same kind of feeling you get when you realize that the girl that you’re kicking it to is only being as responsive as she is because she’s hammered beyond belief and probably won’t remember your conversation the next day.

I happen to actually really like this girl. She’s really fun and positive, and generally very interesting despite her lack of game. I want to keep her around for the duration of her stay in the city, hopefully seamlessly integrating her into rotation without too much of a problem, but at the same time I want to make sure that I don’t fuck her up emotionally. I had her in my bed last night making out with me, yet I didn’t sleep with her. Granted, she wasn’t down to sleep with me yet, but a simple application of some kung fu penis and I would have been inside her without issue. And the decision to not KFP was not one of those “it slipped my mind” moments; when I brought her into my room I had every intention of KFPing. It was actually a game time decision based on me not wanting to ruin her for other men. When a guy like me gives up a lay that is on a silver platter with a cute girl who he actually likes, it’s worth investigating further.

We had a fun little date last night. I had her meet me at 9:30 in my lobby, which she objected to first, but when I explained that it was because I had people over for the Super Bowl and we’d go out for a drink afterword she agreed. I actually thought that my argument was pretty logical, but given her initial hesitation because she didn’t want me to think of her “that way,” I was still surprised when she agreed without any further objection (I later found out that her roommate fed her the initial objection). I was even more surprised when without hesitation she came upstairs (game hadn’t ended yet) without blinking an eye. After the game we went out to a nearby bar that I like to take dates to because it has board games that can be borrowed, and as we were talking I started to realize that she really had no game. She was accepting every frame I was throwing at her, from the simple non-judgmental and discreet frames to the more aggressive ones like casual sex can be empowering and bisexuality. She was trying really hard to impress me in the conversation, like the way that an AFC would sound in talking to a hot girl. I could see her falling in love with me before my eyes and that was not okay!

So now the question is will the alterations that I made to my game serve their intended purpose, or will they just result in me blowing it with a girl who I really like? Or worse, what if the alterations in my game do nothing and I end up fucking her up for other men anyway? So I ask you guys, what do you think of gaming girls with no game?

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February 1st, 2010

Day 12: Weight Gain Saga

Topics: Fitness and Nutrition


1/31

  • 2/3 cups pasta with 1/2lb of 87% ground grass fed beef (740 calories, 48g protein, 40g carbs, 85g fat
  • Iso Pure low carb whey protein shake with 2 scoops of protein, about 1.5 tbspn grass fed butter, 3 oz coconut milk (560 calories, 53g protein, 37g fat)

Calories – 1300

Protein – 101g

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January 31st, 2010

Day 11: Weight Gain Saga

Topics: Fitness and Nutrition


1/30

  • 4/3 cups whole wheat pasta with 1lb of 87% ground grass fed beef (1480 calories, 96g protein, 80g carbs, 85g fat)

Calories – 1480

Protein – 96g

Starting 36 hour fast tomorrow morning for workout and weigh in on Monday night.

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January 31st, 2010

Day 10: Weight Gain Saga

Topics: Fitness and Nutrition


1/29

  • 6 vegetable fed free range organic eggs fried in butter (420 calories, 6g carb, 36g protein, 27g fat)
  • 15 Oz Ribeye (grass fed) with the majority of the grizzle removed (900 calories, 0g carb, 100g protein, 55g fat)
  • 2 slices of pizza (1000 calories)
  • ½ a chicken, about 1 lbs, with about 1.5 tbspn grass fed butter (850 calories, 85g protein, 55g fat)
  • 18 Oz Ribeye (steakhouse, USDA Prime grain fed) (1400 calories, 89g protein, 0g carbs, 113g fat)

Calories – 4570

Protein – 310

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January 29th, 2010

Day 9: Weight Gain Saga

Topics: Fitness and Nutrition


1/28

  • 6 vegetable fed free range organic eggs fried in butter (420 calories, 6g carb, 36g protein, 27g fat)
  • ½ a chicken, about 1 lbs, with about 1.5 tbspn grass fed butter (850 calories, 85g protein, 55g fat)
  • ½ a chicken, about 1 lbs, with about 1.5 tbspn grass fed butter (850 calories, 85g protein, 55g fat)
  • 15 Oz Ribeye (grass fed) with the majority of the grizzle removed (900 calories, 0g carb, 100g protein, 55g fat)

Calories – 3020

Protein – 306

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January 28th, 2010

Day 8: Weight Gain Saga

Topics: Fitness and Nutrition


1/27

  • 6 vegetable fed free range organic eggs fried in butter (420 calories, 6g carb, 36g protein, 27g fat)
  • ½ a chicken, about 1 lbs, with about 1.5 tbspn grass fed butter (850 calories, 85g protein, 55g fat)
  • 2 double hamburgers from Shake Shack, each with 2 packets of Heinz Ketchup (1240 calories, 85g carb, 125g protein, 45g fat)
  • 15 Oz Ribeye (grass fed) with the majority of the grizzle removed (900 calories, 0g carb, 100g protein, 55g fat)
  • Iso Pure low carb whey protein shake with 2 scoops of protein, about 1.5 tbspn grass fed butter, 3 oz coconut milk (560 calories, 53g protein, 37g fat)

Calories – 3970

Protein – 396

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January 27th, 2010

This Week In Game: Touching Pornstars

Topics: TSB Posts


Hey Guys,

New “This Week In Game” post is now live on TSB Magazine. Find it here.

Hammer

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January 27th, 2010

Day 7: Weight Gain Saga

Topics: Fitness and Nutrition


1/26

  • Iso Pure low carb whey protein shake with 2 scoops of protein, about 1.5 tbspn grass fed butter, 3 oz coconut milk (560 calories, 53g protein, 37g fat)
  • 6 vegetable fed free range organic eggs fried in butter (420 calories, 6g carb, 36g protein, 27g fat)
  • ½ a chicken, about 1 lbs, with about 1.5 tbspn grass fed butter (850 calories, 85g protein, 55g fat)
  • 2 double hamburgers from Shake Shack, each with 2 packets of Heinz Ketchup (1240 calories, 85g carb, 125g protein, 45g fat)
  • Iso Pure low carb whey protein shake with 2 scoops of protein, about 1.5 tbspn grass fed butter, 3 oz coconut milk (560 calories, 53g protein, 37g fat)

Calories – 3630

Protein – 346

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January 26th, 2010

Day 6: Weight Gain Saga

Topics: Fitness and Nutrition


1/25

  • 1 slice of Pizza (500 calories, rest unknown)
  • Chocolate Meal Bar (190 calories, 13g protein, 26g carbs, 6g fat)
  • Large chicken breast with 3 tbsp butter, about 1 lbs (740 calories, 94g protein, 43g fat)
  • 2/3 cups pasta with 1/2lb of 87% ground grass fed beef (740 calories, 48g protein, 40g carbs, 85g fat)
  • Iso Pure low carb whey protein shake with 2 scoops of protein, about 1.5 tbspn grass fed butter, 3 oz coconut milk (560 calories, 53g protein, 37g fat)

Calories – 2730

Protein – 208

Keep in mind that most of this day was a 24 hour fast going into the workout. Weighed in at 145, which is 2 lbs greater than last week. Not the change I was hoping for, but it is significant. I guess I’m going to have to up my food intake even more!

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January 24th, 2010

Day 5: Weight Gain Saga

Topics: Fitness and Nutrition


1/24

  • Iso Pure low carb whey protein shake with 2 scoops of protein, about 1.5 tbspn grass fed butter, 3 oz coconut milk (560 calories, 53g protein, 3g carbs, 37g fat)
  • 15 Oz Ribeye (grass fed) with the majority of the grizzle removed (900 calories, 0g carb, 100g protein, 55g fat)
  • 4/3 cups whole wheat pasta with 1lb of 87% ground grass fed beef (1480 calories, 96g protein, 80g carbs, 85g fat)

After 6 I started my 24 hour fast going into my workout tomorrow. I’ll come back with a weigh in tomorrow evening!

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