Comments on: Gaming Girls With No Game

By: smile

smile — Thu, 31 Mar 2011 19:35:57 +0000

Don’t break her heart. The one guy I fell in love with told me he loved my innocence and sweet-heart personality. He then broke my heart, which lead me to getting my stomach pumped at the hospital.

Vulnerable girls need to be cared for, if not, then the next guy she meets, will definitely be toyed with.
*smirk*

By: Hammer

Hammer — Fri, 19 Feb 2010 20:39:18 +0000

Yea, I did dial it back as I said in the post, but this girl kind of continues to show more and more signs of falling in love with me. I’m totally honest with her about what’s what, so it’s on her if she gets hurt, but we’ll see how things go.

By: Thundercat

Thundercat — Fri, 19 Feb 2010 18:39:36 +0000

Actually, I think Jennifer is right to an extent, bro. Being from a small town in Ohio myself, I know where this girl is coming from. It sounds like she genuinely likes you from your post, and if that’s the case, you don’t need to be running hard game on her like you’re doing.

I agree that you need to be consistent with who you are, but at a certain point with a chick, especially one you like and who you’re in a relationship with, you need to relax and just rely on the comfort and trust you’ve built up with her to carry you through the long term.

It sounds like you typically go for high-maintenance women who need that type of game you’re talking about (girls with game? i guess?). We got those types here in LA too. But we also got normal girls, like the one you’re going after, and I personally prefer those because you can actually have meaningful relationships with them.

If you were just going for a “hit it and quit it” mentality, then your regular game would probably work. But I think you know that because you like this girl and she is different, you need to dial it back a bit. I think if you built up the emotional connection with this girl she would want to go all the way with you.

Good luck!

By: Hammer

Hammer — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 12:52:31 +0000

I absolutely tease everyone in my life, especially my friends. That’s the whole point of teasing, it’s quick intimacy. People who aren’t close generally don’t bust on each other.

You clearly don’t understand what game is on a fundamental level or why it works. And yes, you do have to keep being the same attractive man in a long term relationship as you were in the initial pickup, that’s just called being honest.

By: Jennifer

Jennifer — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 09:34:19 +0000

So even when you hang out with your mates/ girls who are just normal friends, you neg, frame etc. ???
And are you saying that you have developed a personality which only works for dating/ picking up girls, but not for long term relationships (and don’t say that making someone chase you is going to work forever..)?

By: Hammer

Hammer — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 15:51:33 +0000

I don’t really understand what you mean by not playing her. If I know I like her, why would I cut her out of my life? And if I’m talking to her, how can I not “play her?” Game has been deeply integrated into my personality through years of practice, it’s not some kind of conscious choice that has an on/off switch.

By: Jennifer

Jennifer — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 07:06:00 +0000

Have you considered NOT playing her? If you know you like her and she is easy to manipulate, why are you doing it? I just can’t get my head round this ..