Hey Guys,
Psychoanalysis game is something that I have been doing since I first read Magic Bullets back in 2007 after seeing the first episode of Season 1 of VH1′s ”The Pickup Artist.” It works very well for me and is the basis of a lot of what I do with regards to boyfriend stealing and general relationship management. As you guys know, I am not a guru or a dating coach, so this may or may not be the best advice in the world for everyone, but I will say that whether or not it works for me cannot be questioned.
One of the first things you learn when people start teaching you game is that “you can’t logic your way into bed with a girl.” I think that this is generally true, but psychoanalysis game attempts to do just that in a way. The human mind is a very interesting thing, and while we perceive that we have “free will” and are in the driver’s seat of our bodies, all the science on decision making seems to suggest otherwise. In fact, every day, as more and more studies are published, they paint a picture of us being spectators rather than players in the game of life. What I mean by this is that our decisions are made for us in lower areas of our brain and are then backwards rationalized in our consciousness. So while you can’t logic a girl into feeling emotions that you want her to feel, you can alter the way she interprets them in the conscious mind. This is where psychoanalysis game comes into play.
First, a word of caution. When used properly, these techniques can be extremely powerful, so as with all technology, just be careful to what ends you are using it for.
There are a million areas in which you can use psychoanalysis game, so I’m not going to even try to name all of them, but basically the jist of it is that you are going to come up with explanations for her behavior that are in line with what you want from her. This is always a very risky gambit, because if you are way off it will not work. Of course, if in fact your explanation is the reason for her behavior, then obviously you’re golden, but you probably also didn’t need to use psychoanalysis game in the first place. These gambits are effective for that grey area between the definite yes and definite no where you may be able to tip the balance by backwards rationalizing her behavior in your favor.
Let’s talk about an application of psychoanalysis game. Say you’re trying to steal a girl from another guy. You have her attracted to you and you talk to her regularly enough that it would feel weird if she didn’t hear from you for a couple of days. You followed my advice and told her that you like her and want to her to leave the the other guy for you, and that you cannot be her friend anymore if she doesn’t, and then do the dip Freak Nasty style. A week later she calls you and says that she misses you as a friend.
Instead of just saying, “no, I told you I wan’t going to be your friend,” what you do is explain to her that she obviously likes you otherwise she wouldn’t be so upset about losing you as a “friend.” Then you take it a step further and tell her that she obviously isn’t happy in her current relationship or she wouldn’t care if you disappeared from her life. Tell her that her guy is obviously a huge pussy and doesn’t act like a man around her. Describe all of the “nice guy” behavior that you would imagine she’s probably experiencing. Then dip away again. Let it ruminate. If she doesn’t call you back, you’re lost (either she’s really into the guy and you were just wrong, or she’s just not attracted enough to you despite not being into her boyfriend). If she does, reinforce what you said before, and make a logistical play to see her.
The reason that I say this operates in the grey area is because it doesn’t have to actually be the case that she likes you that much that she is going to leave her current situation for you. In fact, it is often the case, particularly with an exceptionally beautiful woman, that she is just not used to being denied in that way and it is throwing her off. Again though, you can rewire this rationalization in her mind as described above. We’re not changing what she’s feeling, just how she interprets what she’s feeling. Once the change in her interpretation has been made, this rationalization will shape her actions going forward. I am not sure how clear or unclear this explanation of psychoanalysis game is, so please let me know if anything needs to be clarified.
Hammer
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Thundercat
Where’s the psychoanalysis part of this? I would think part of this technique would be to breakdown the psychology behind why she’s currently with a guy. I’ve had some success dating women who had boyfriends when I met them, and I usually elicited the things they weren’t happy about in their relationship and then presented an alternative to that by being “better” than who she was currently with. Is that what you do here? It wasn’t clear.
Whenever dealing with a woman – any woman – you’re right that you can’t use logic to convince them of anything, and I also think you’re right that you can use logic to break down how to get them, but you need to translate that into emotional response because at the end of the day, that’s what drives the girl.
Would you be willing to clarify in more detail how you use psychoanalysis in PUA?
Thundercat
Hammer
Twitter: hammer86
You’re developing a theory about her sub-conscious motivations that you’re using to explanation her actions and feelings, thus psychoanalyzing her.
Thundercat
So can you give an example of how this would work if you’re trying to PU a girl in a club? Or a coffee shop? Or if you’re out on a date?
Thundercat
Jmance
Being a prick to girls, threatening to throw away friendship is not the way to go. And by the sounds of it, you base a lot of your game on boyfriend stealing….by threatening the woman with the termination of your friendship (?!) Do you have no moral concern?
V
I think this reminds me of something:
Telling a girl that she likes you. When used by creepers, or when she isn’t actually giving IOI’s it’s odd. But I’ve seen it used very effectively.
V´s last blog ..The Beginning Part Two
Hammer
Twitter: hammer86
Again, as I mentioned, it requires attraction, so it cannot be used to build attraction, although it can be used to reinforce attraction that is already there.